Tonight With Your Spouse Should Be A Special Night!

What?! What are you doing reading a blog post today?!  Unless you’re currently unmarried without a significant other, you should be spending all your extra time today working on “your Valentine.”

Since you’re already reading this, I have five questions for you, and then you need to get going – and start thinking about You-Know-Who!

Five Questions to consider with your spouse tonight:

1. Where was your first kiss?
2. What attracted you to him or her?
3. Where was your first official date?
4. What thing did you enjoy doing your first year of marriage? No, I mean, what other thing? 
5. What could you do with your spouse tonight that would reignite that flame of love that originally propelled you to the altar?

Take those five questions, copy them as a note onto your smartphone, then ask and answer them together tonight. Spend some time remembering, laughing, and enjoying each other. Allow the cares and stresses of “these days” to just peel away as you remember the love that drew you together, and in “those days” caused everything else to pale in comparison.

Use tonight to spend thoughtful time with your spouse - he or she is your secret weapon in ministry!

I know, this was not an overtly spiritual post. In case you haven’t noticed, most of them aren’t. You’re a pastor – you should already be driving alongside the spiritual. But, tonight can be as spiritual as you want it to be.

Have a wonderful Valentine’s Day.